OCTAVIA
EV
I help women embrace their sexuality, navigate hard marriages, and reclaim their power, provision, and pleasure — without compromising their boundaries, beliefs, or faith.
Meet Octavia EV
With over 15 years of experience and 200K+ followers across all social media platforms, Octavia EV is the go-to expert for women of faith navigating sex, relationships, and hard marriages. She helps women stop surviving and start choosing themselves.
“I am the Harriet Tubman of Your Sex Life — I lead women from sexual frustration, religious repression, and marital survival mode into true liberation.” — Octavia EV (OEV)
After nearly 21 years of marriage, Octavia is now navigating life as a free woman — parenting her 5 incredible children, rediscovering love, and redefining success on her own terms.
Sexologist. Relationship Coach. Life Coach. Author. Speaker. Woman of Faith. Mother of 5. Free Woman.
Octavia EV shows up as all of it — and she’s ready for you.
Real Guidance. Real Change.
Direct access to OEV when you are done hesitating, done overthinking, done looping — and ready to move.
“A sexually frustrated single woman often becomes a sexually frustrated married woman. You don’t need more advice. You need clarity.”
— Octavia EV · Your Favorite Sexologist™ · Relationship Coach · Life Coach
OEV’s Books & Guides
& Products
Every Woman Deserves Support
Bi-monthly newsletter with monthly live raw & uncut Q&A calls for grown women of faith. A sisterhood built for liberation. $37/mo.
Join NowGot questions you want answered? Call OEV on a FaceTime-style call. Real answers. No fluff. $4/minute, up to 20 minutes.
Call NowBook OEV for your podcast, women’s conference, summit, or event. Bold. Biblical. Science-backed. Every audience leaves transformed.
Book OEVThe LOEV Letter — a newsletter on Love, Leisure & Pleasure for women of faith. Subscribe on Substack and AWOL your life.
Subscribe FreeWalk through your situation together. Get clear on your next step. Find out if private coaching is the right fit for you right now.
Book Your CallHigh-touch, real-time coaching via WhatsApp. You bring the truth — OEV brings clarity, direction, and strategy you can actually apply.
Get StartedShe’s A.W.O.L.
✦ She’s A.W.O.L. — Flagship show on love, leisure & pleasure on YouTube & all platforms
✦ She’s A.W.O.L. Newsletter — The LOEV Letter on Substack for women of faith
✦ Sex4Ladies — Private, raw & uncut members-only Q&A calls and newsletter
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What Women Are Saying
“OEV changed my entire perspective on my sexuality and my faith. I no longer feel shame for having desires. She gave me language, tools, and permission to be fully alive.”
“I was in a marriage that looked great on the outside but I was dying inside. After working with OEV I finally understand what I actually deserve. My whole life shifted.”
“She is the Harriet Tubman of your sex life — that’s not an exaggeration. She led me out of bondage I didn’t even know I was in. I am A.W.O.L. and I am FREE.”
DONE
SURVIVING.
TIME TO
THRIVE.
Whether you’re navigating your sexuality, surviving a hard marriage, looking for a book, or wanting to book OEV for your stage — you’re in the right place.
Email: info@OctaviaEVance.com