She’s A.W.O.L., LLC

OCTAVIA
EV

Your Favorite Sexologist™ — Certified
Relationship Coach — Certified
Life Coach — Certified
Best-Selling Author — International
Navigator of Power, Provision & Pleasure
Sought-After Speaker

I help women embrace their sexuality, navigate hard marriages, and reclaim their power, provision, and pleasure — without compromising their boundaries, beliefs, or faith.

200K+
Combined Followers
4M+
Video Views
15+
Yrs Experience
2K+
Books Sold
Octavia EV — Your Favorite Sexologist
Octavia EV
Your Favorite Sexologist™  ·  Relationship Coach  ·  Life Coach  ·  Speaker  ·  Author
The Woman. The Brand. The Movement.

Meet Octavia EV

Certified Sexologist — #1 for Women of Faith
Certified Relationship Coach
Certified Life Coach
International Best-Selling Author
Sought-After Speaker & Media Personality
Navigator of Power, Provision & Pleasure
Podcast Host — She’s A.W.O.L.
Founder — She’s A.W.O.L. & Sex 4 Ladies Community

With over 15 years of experience and 200K+ followers across all social media platforms, Octavia EV is the go-to expert for women of faith navigating sex, relationships, and hard marriages. She helps women stop surviving and start choosing themselves.

“I am the Harriet Tubman of Your Sex Life — I lead women from sexual frustration, religious repression, and marital survival mode into true liberation.” — Octavia EV (OEV)

After nearly 21 years of marriage, Octavia is now navigating life as a free woman — parenting her 5 incredible children, rediscovering love, and redefining success on her own terms.

She Is More Than a Label.

Sexologist. Relationship Coach. Life Coach. Author. Speaker. Woman of Faith. Mother of 5. Free Woman.
Octavia EV shows up as all of it — and she’s ready for you.

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Real Guidance. Real Change.

Direct access to OEV when you are done hesitating, done overthinking, done looping — and ready to move.

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“A sexually frustrated single woman often becomes a sexually frustrated married woman. You don’t need more advice. You need clarity.”

— Octavia EV  ·  Your Favorite Sexologist™  ·  Relationship Coach  ·  Life Coach

International Best-Selling Author

OEV’s Books & Guides

9 Things Women Should Ask a Man Before Giving Him Sex
Best-Seller  ·  1,000+ Sold
9 Things Women Should Ask a Man Before Giving Him Sex
How to have sexual success as a single woman of faith
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9 Positions to Get You to The Big O
eBook  ·  1,200+ Sold
9 Positions to Get You to The Big O!
The best positions for the ultimate experience
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9 Pleasure Hacks for the Hitched Woman of Faith
Book  ·  For Married Women
9 Pleasure Hacks for the Hitched Woman of Faith
Ways to experience nasty pleasure in the bedroom without guilt, shame or condemnation
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9 Pleasure Hacks for the Single Woman of Faith
Book  ·  For Single Women
9 Pleasure Hacks for the Single Woman of Faith
Ways to experience pleasure without compromising your faith
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Are You Tired... or Are You Done?
eGuide  ·  Only $7
Are You Tired… or Are You Done?
A guide for women in marriages that look good but don’t feel good
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Every Woman Deserves Support

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Sex4Ladies Membership

Bi-monthly newsletter with monthly live raw & uncut Q&A calls for grown women of faith. A sisterhood built for liberation. $37/mo.

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02
PopCall — Call OEV Direct

Got questions you want answered? Call OEV on a FaceTime-style call. Real answers. No fluff. $4/minute, up to 20 minutes.

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03
Speaking & Media Bookings

Book OEV for your podcast, women’s conference, summit, or event. Bold. Biblical. Science-backed. Every audience leaves transformed.

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04
She’s A.W.O.L. Newsletter

The LOEV Letter — a newsletter on Love, Leisure & Pleasure for women of faith. Subscribe on Substack and AWOL your life.

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05
Discovery Call

Walk through your situation together. Get clear on your next step. Find out if private coaching is the right fit for you right now.

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WhatsApp Coaching

High-touch, real-time coaching via WhatsApp. You bring the truth — OEV brings clarity, direction, and strategy you can actually apply.

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She’s A.W.O.L. Newsletter — The LOEV Letter on Substack for women of faith

Sex4Ladies — Private, raw & uncut members-only Q&A calls and newsletter

Octavia EV — Podcast Host
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What Women Are Saying

“OEV changed my entire perspective on my sexuality and my faith. I no longer feel shame for having desires. She gave me language, tools, and permission to be fully alive.”

Marshae’ Brown
Coaching Client

“I was in a marriage that looked great on the outside but I was dying inside. After working with OEV I finally understand what I actually deserve. My whole life shifted.”

Sherita L. Payne
Relationship Coaching Client

“She is the Harriet Tubman of your sex life — that’s not an exaggeration. She led me out of bondage I didn’t even know I was in. I am A.W.O.L. and I am FREE.”

Drea Mosley
Sex4Ladies Member
Ready to Choose Yourself?

DONE
SURVIVING.
TIME TO
THRIVE.

Whether you’re navigating your sexuality, surviving a hard marriage, looking for a book, or wanting to book OEV for your stage — you’re in the right place.

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Email: info@OctaviaEVance.com